On the flip side, though, My husband has always wanted to live in or near Manhattan, so there is part of me that really wants to make that happen for him. I had an opportunity to live in Miami for a few months about 5 years ago. I was all set to go but backed out at the last minute. It's the only regret that I have in my entire life, and I'm afraid that if we don't take this opportunity it will just be another huge regret. Also, this could be a great opportunity for my husband to advance in his company and we might be able to move back home in a couple years.
So, obviously we have a lot of thinking to do and a huge decision to make. Any advice or words of encouragement would be much appreciated !